Surviving the Holidays After a Divorce: Emotional and Legal Advice for Newly Divorced Individuals

Surviving the Holidays After a Divorce: Emotional and Legal Advice for Newly Divorced Individuals

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM), a crucial time to shed light on the pervasive issue of domestic violence, support survivors, and provide information on the resources and legal options available in Florida. Domestic violence affects individuals regardless of age, gender, or socioeconomic status, and understanding the available support can be life-saving.

Understanding Domestic Violence

Domestic violence is not limited to physical abuse; it also includes emotional, psychological, sexual, and financial abuse. According to Florida law, domestic violence is defined under Florida Statute §741.28 as any assault, aggravated assault, battery, aggravated battery, sexual assault, sexual battery, stalking, aggravated stalking, kidnapping, false imprisonment, or any criminal offense resulting in physical injury or death of one family or household member by another family or household member.

Recognizing the Signs

Recognizing the signs of domestic violence is the first step toward seeking help. Some common indicators include:

  • Physical injuries such as bruises, cuts, or broken bones
  • Sudden changes in behavior or personality
  • Fear of one’s partner or intense anxiety
  • Isolation from friends and family
  • Financial control or restrictions
  • Verbal threats or constant criticism

Resources for Immediate Assistance for Domestic Violence

If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, call 911. For those seeking support, there are numerous resources available in Florida:

  1. Florida Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-500-1119
  2. National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
  3. Florida Coalition Against Domestic Violence (FCADV): Provides resources and support, including shelter and counseling services. Visit their website at FCADV.
  4. Local Shelters and Support Services: Many counties in Florida have shelters and support services specifically for domestic violence survivors.
  5. United Way’s 211 Connect Service– A comprehensive help line and source of human and social services information in Florida and nationwide. Highly trained specialists are available 24/7 to connect you with the best services available.

Legal Protections for Domestic Violence Survivors

Florida provides several legal avenues to protect and support survivors of domestic violence. Understanding these options can help survivors take steps toward safety and justice.

  1. Injunctions for Protection: Commonly known as restraining orders, these legal orders prevent the abuser from contacting or coming near the survivor. There are several types of injunctions available in Florida:
    • Domestic Violence Injunction: For those who have experienced violence or have a reasonable belief that they are in imminent danger.
    • Repeat Violence Injunction: For individuals who have been victims of violence on two or more occasions.
    • Dating Violence Injunction: For those in a significant romantic or intimate relationship who have experienced violence.
    • Sexual Violence Injunction: For survivors of sexual violence.
    • Stalking Injunction: For those who are being stalked.
  2. Filing for an Injunction: Survivors can file a petition for an injunction at the clerk of the court in their county. The process involves completing necessary forms, providing detailed information about the abuse, and attending a court hearing. It is advisable to seek assistance from an attorney or a local domestic violence advocate to navigate this process.
  3. Criminal Charges: Abusers can face criminal charges under Florida law. Survivors can report the abuse to law enforcement, who can then investigate and potentially arrest and charge the abuser. Common charges include battery, aggravated battery, and stalking.
  4. Child Custody and Support: Domestic violence can impact child custody decisions. Florida courts prioritize the best interests of the child, and evidence of domestic violence is a significant factor in custody and visitation arrangements. Survivors can also seek child support to ensure financial stability for their children.

Domestic Violence Support from Parra Harris Family Law

At Parra Harris Family Law, we are committed to supporting survivors of domestic violence. Our experienced attorneys can provide legal guidance and representation to help you secure protection and navigate the legal system. We offer services including:

  • Filing for Injunctions: Assisting in the preparation and filing of petitions for protection.
  • Representation in Court: Providing legal representation during hearings and proceedings.
  • Child Custody and Support: Advocating for your rights and the best interests of your children in custody and support matters.
  • Divorce Proceedings: Guiding you through the divorce process, ensuring your safety and legal rights are protected.

Help is Always Here

Domestic Violence Awareness Month is an important time to highlight the resources and legal support available to survivors in Florida. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, remember that help is available. At Parra Harris Family Law, we are dedicated to providing compassionate and comprehensive legal support to help survivors achieve safety and justice. We are fully bilingual in English and Spanish and have a track record you can rely on.

For more information or to schedule a consultation, please contact us at Parra Harris Family Law or call us at 904-900-1617.

Paola Parra Harris